Being a balanced mom is not easy. Anyone can be a mother. Being a balanced mother, however, is a skill that is developed over time. If your children aren't demanding attention, your husband needs your company. It seems almost impossible to get a little alone time. Here are a few tips for moms to balance the kids, husbands, and alone time.
Kids Being happy means spending quality time with mommy. For me, spending time with my children is easy.My mother worked outside of the home. Although she did not stay home with me, I got plenty of quality time with her. She made sure we ate supper together each and every night. Although most parents see their children every day, it does not mean they connect with them every day. Make sure you connect with your child at every chance possible.
Husband Husbands are like big kids. If they don't get enough attention, they begin to misbehave. I know my husband is feeling neglected when he starts getting irritable about every little thing I say. I try to never let this happen by spending quality time with him every night of the week. This means my children have 8:00 PM bedtimes. After 8:00, my husband and I get quality time to discuss anything we want to discuss. We can also use this time for movies and recreation. I find it is extremely necessary for a happy marriage with children.
Alone Time Alone time is the one area most moms neglect to address. Kids and husbands tend to take up a lot of energy. This means there is very little left for us. To prevent this from happening, make your alone time in the morning before you have a chance to be too tired. Take this time to quietly exercise, read a book, sip coffee while doing a crossword puzzle, or any other activity you enjoy. If you need more alone time, try using the shower as a get away. Take extra long showers and let the hot water run over your body as you rehash the previous or coming day. Sometimes the shower is the most enjoyable part of my day.
No mother is perfect. However, if you learn how to successfully balance kids, husbands, and alone time, you will be much closer to perfect than you might think.
Traditional America should be on the Endangered Species List. There are factions pulling at the fabric of American ideals, manners of commerce and government as well as forces that exert an influence on our traditions and are trying to change those as well. I'm not sure what is more dangerous - the effort to bring about extra-legal interpretations of the Constitution or the efforts to force us to accept their ideas of a future America. Those arguing for the changes often present their ideals under the guise of a "a morally just nation & society," but that's so many talking points and attempted clever positioning. Their ideas of moral & social justice are screwy as Hell.
For example, the recent election saw California vote down the Gay Marriage recognition attempts. Agree or not, the referendum was put to the voters and they said no - not by a large margin, but no nonetheless. Majority rules so get over it and accept it.
So when the matter is put to a vote and the majority does not favor the change they wish to impose, instead of accepting their defeat with grace and dignity they take to assault, disrupting persons desires and rights to freedom of worship and just generally making nuisances of themselves. Just like when they lost to Bush in 2000 & 2004 - absolutely zero class from their side of the aisle. Yet an Obama win 2 weeks ago has not seen us behave as they do, now has it? No. In fact most all my peeps hope Obama is a success because that makes the nation a success. Do you lame brained get this? Guess not.
Clearly these people have no real interest in legal and lawful manners of governance. They pay lip service to it but if that fails, like the California gay marriage proposition, they return to their roots. And deep those roots are. They are moored in civil disobedience, mayhem and spectacle. Look to the late 1960's and you'll see their default tendencies.
The 1968 Chicago riots, Bill Ayers and his Weather Underground pals and of course Charles Manson and the Family are all manifestations of their manners of demonstrating their displeasure with we traditional Americans. When they could not bring about all this social and governmental change these big brained fools think needs be undertaken, they revert to other methods.
Look at Jim Jones & The People's Temple. He was a Marxist and he admitted it many times. He could so not relate to his mother country he abandoned it, and he drug along 900 plus poor peeps who'd been brainwashed by his Marxist rhetoric. BTW, the People's Temple massacre was 30 years ago today, so my attacking these hateful leftists is really just my memorial to the lost souls who took up with Jones and his hatred for the US. Are any of you aware that Jones asked his followers in their wills to bequeath their assets to the Soviet Union? Nice, huh? Their movement is devoid of merit in any sense that a traditional American can relate to.
We need to view their idiocy sorta like the American body politic having a movement of its own - our own national bowel movement whereby we, the nation, shed the smelly and gaseous waste. Their ideas stink to high Heaven. They are the waste by-product of millions of American success stories. They are the parts of the story that did not contribute to success. They are the left overs when the rest has been put to good use.
And like any healthy organism we need to not only expell this effluvia but we must also remove it from our immediate presence. As the old saying goes, "ya don't shit where ya eat," and as such we should make sure these wastes of protoplasm are not in such proximity so as to further foul our air. One can get dysentery from too close an association with such waste products. Is that what ya want? Dysentery? I think not!
When we detect that foul odor that they pass off as enlightened, big-brained and all inclusive thinking just remember what you're really detecting. You're detecting the smelly and unsightly by-product of American traditionalism. You are being forcefully drenched in a wave of hatred for us and the bigotry they employ to so frame we traditionalists. They don't get America, thus they hate what they do not or can not understand.
To hear them tell it we traditional Americans are the problem. Our adherence to law and American tradition poses many problems for them. They argue we are jingoists if we expect our nation to enforce its immigration laws. They announce to the world our nation is an imperial entity and that they, the naysayer, is the real American. Don't make me laugh.
They vilify and demonize our nation in the eyes of other Americans and the world to further their philosophical desires. They paint my nation as an evil entity bent on wealth at the expense of Mankind. They undertake nearly any method they feel will gain ground for their cause. They attack the vast majority of Americans for believing in God. To hear them opine on it is to take a lesson in how to belittle and defame a person's innermost relationship with themselves or their creator. They know no shame, because to feel shame one must feel remorse, and when it comes to their desires there is no remorse.
So they have declared war on Traditional America. Next up will be what I believe we need to do to neutralize their hatred for our traditions and their seeming hatred for our nation.
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